"The gem cannot be polished without friction nor man without trials." --Confucius
"The darkest hour has only sixty minutes." --Morris Mandel
"We must find time to stop and thank the people who have made a difference in our lives." --Dan Zadra (This includes your partners and loved ones) Willy
Why is it so easy to relate to a stranger, and yet So very difficult to talk openly to your partner??
How come we are so successful at work, business, sport and other activities, yet we don't get it together in our Marriage/Relationship!!
My answer is....the successful business has a plan in place and I don't know of too many people that have a plan for their marriage and relationship. Buying a house and having children is what couples do, it is not necessary a plan.
As a Coach I say "don't wait until it is so bad that it is not repairable Before you seek help"
Our partners ought to be angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
With this thought let me say the reason partners have trouble is they have forgotten how much fun they used to have with each and how much laughter and enjoyment they had.
Love will find a way -
everything else will find an excuse
“Let Love be your greatest aim.”
A MAN’S DESPERATE APOLOGY
What if I said sorry and gave you a big kiss! How about sorry, a big kiss and dinner at Pete’s place! Well, what about sorry, a big kiss, dinner at Pete’s place and a chic movie! What if I threw in 500 bucks!
My question is to both partners why wait till it gets this desperate? I believe we don't keep close watch of the state of our relationship then suddenly we realize our relationship is in bige trouble.