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  Dear Willy

Thank you for a very informative, thought provoking consultation. My husband and I are extremely enthusiastic about the sessions to follow and we have a great feeling about this. You are wonderful and hit all the right spots today! Pinpointing our personality traits enlightened me to things about myself I didn’t recognise before and also made me realise that with all our history of broken families etc, I have never actually sat down and asked myself, “So how did all this affect me, and how did it change the person that I was?”. All I ever saw and thought about were my partner’s faults.  

 We felt slightly more empowered today, and look forward to what else will be unveiled about ourselves and each other!

 Thank you for taking the time to see us

Kind regards Satisfied Clients.

FROM  RELATIONSHIP WATCHDOG -WILLY

THE TRUTH TOLD

 When you speak to your partner, friend or whoever, be sure you speak the truth then you will never ever have to remember what you said.    (Quote unknown)

 THE RELATIONSHIP WATCHDOG WILLY

We are surrounded with negativity and moaning and groaning, so let’s turn the month of March into a positive month.

When I wake up in the morning and I am breathing that is my plus for the day, then I acknowledge where my strength comes from and give thanks. I then say good morning to my darling, special wife and am then ready for the day.

I heard someone once say that today is not a dress rehearsal it is the real thing, come six o’clock tonight and if you didn’t do what you set out to do there is nothing you can do to rectify the day.  It is gone, so make sure that when tomorrow comes use it to its fullest and at all times make sure you are positive and avoid all negativity.

Having said all this, we need to learn how to make our partners and others feel special.  Here is my point:  We use so much energy being angry and negative with ourselves, our partners and a many other people.  Let us turn this around and start being positive.  Wake up and make your partner feel special by saying something nice and positive to them and make him or her ready for the day.

 When you go to work and you think of one of your friends preferably male with male and female with female and not someone else’s partner, but a friend or family, go ahead give them a call and tell them they are special and they must have a good day.  We never hear this!  I tell you they will feel so good and will have a good day.      

 FROM: THE RELATIONSHIP WATCHDOG – WILLY

Wishing all my blog readers a happy valentines day.

Just a word of caution for all those valentiners that have planned something special for their loved ones,  over the last couple of days don’t start some thing that you can’t finish.  You see valentines day isn’t just a 24 four hour thing, so what ever you have planned and done for your partner to make them feel special and loved  should be for the rest of your lives.

FROM: THE RELATIONSHIP WATCHDOG WILLY

 Communication                          

A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other the silent treatment.

The next week the man realized he would need his wife to wake him at 05:00 am for an early flight to Sydney. Not wanting to be the first to break the silence, he finally wrote on a piece of paper, “Please wake me at 05:00 am.”

The next morning the man woke up, only to discover that it was 09:00 am and that he had missed his flight.

Furious, he was about to go and see why his wife had not woken him, when he noticed a piece of paper by the bed …it said: “It’s 5 am, WAKE UP !!!”

Laughter and having a good laugh together is good for your relationship.

FROM: THE RELATIONSHIP WATCHDOG WILLY.

BEWARE                                  

The truths contained on this blog can change and enrich  your relationship and you as an individual if you dare to read them!!!

SO WATCH THIS SPACE!!!  

FROM: THE RELATIONSHIP WATCHDOG WILLY     

 e-mail me info@willyconradie .co.za  for private comments.

How True

“It is so easy to relate to a stranger,

and yet so very difficult to talk

openly and honestly to your partner….”

From:  The Relationship Watchdog – Willy

Well, what do you know, 2011 is a couple of hours away, now starts the New Year resolutions.  Next year I am going to do this and that and so it goes on, comes end of January and not many of the good intentions are met and so year after year this goes on.

My heart is with relationships so this is where I will concentrate.  Do not make resolutions for you and your partner, concentrate on taking stock of the past year and admit where you went wrong.  Then plan on how you can improve together in making each other happy in 2011.

• Admit your mistakes               

• Listen to each other

• Give each other the benefit of the doubt.

• Don’t ever go to sleep angry with each other

• Let love rule the home and let love lead in all areas of your lives.  Love each other no matter what. Is that not why you got together in the first place??

My wish to all my bloggers is a happy and a prosperous New Year.

FROM:  THE RELATIONSHIP WATCHDOG – WILLY

                                          Just a Quote

Your partner will forget what you said even forget what you did,

 But they will never forget how you made them feel.”

 So go out of your way to repeat this feeling over and over again. 

FROME THE RELATIONSHIP WATCHDOG Willy.